My self-summary

I like anime, BDSM, cyberpunk, enthusiastic consent, free software, polyamory, queerfeminism, Taylor Swift songs and Woodrocket movies.

If you think a combination of traveling, drinking vino, no ONS and btw, I use arch is a personality, we might not get along very well.

float gender; My personal pronoun is ey. My MBTI test result said SLUT.

I am easily bored by most people – but “shy” does not imply “boring”. Intellect paired with a creative / mischievous streak is a huge turn-on for me. I try to only touch people I like. If you want to touch, ask for consent.

Years ago, I wanted to fall recklessly in love with a stranger – or failing that, at least meet lots of interesting people. When falling in love actually happened, much of it was nice … but I learned that breakups often make me sad and the sadness does not go away ever.

I have attention deficit disorder (ADD) and take medication to stay awake and to be able to concentrate for more than 20 minutes. This means I have to take a pill every four hours. I also have to take blood pressure medication every morning since a traumatic event.

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What I'm doing with my life

I moved to Berlin in 2008 to study philosophy and computer science. I blogged, did a podcast, contributed to free software games, wrote a book about internet memes, implemented a build system and a bot that uploaded many videos to Wikimedia Commons. I also really got around when looking for a permanent space to live.

I work from home, doing computer stuff. In my free time I am trying to malefail myself.

TL;DR: Whenever I feel lonely I cuddle my favourite thinkpad charger.

I'm really good at

• Threatening to punch people who touch me without my consent
• 50+ Lewd Jokes That Will Give You Dirty Pleasure
• Anal (TBD: testimonials?)

I do not want to be touched by people without my explicit verbal consent and can be very vocal about it. Even if I find someone attractive and/or like being touched, I will point this out.

I am late. Probably unshaved. A guy once told me I ask questions like a cop. When I interact with a new computer program, I usually try to figure out ways to break it with unanticipated inputs.

When I do not take my medication, I may appear confused or anxious.

A former friend said I talk like people on LSD do when I am sober. Since having been a tripsitter, I do understand what she meant. My creativity has greatly diminished since I have a day job.

I like to make myself available to people I find attractive in both sexual and non-sexual ways. I like to listen, prepare food for others and do household tasks without getting something in return if I am in an appropriate mood. I do not get similar satisfaction from self-care.

Apparently I can say “no” in a really provocative way. This has lead to people yelling at me – most often right after me not wanting to talk or have sex with them. Once a woman claimed that not wanting to have sex with her but wanting to have sex with others was like eating a burger in front of someone who is starving.